I want to try swinging but my girlfriend is not very keen on the idea

DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to introduce other men and women into our sex life and perhaps other couples too.

My partner is shy and quite inhibited. She is not keen and goes quiet if I talk about it.

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You only live once, so why not give it a go? I trust my partner completely, by the way.

I am a guy of 36, she’s 34 and we have been together for five years.

Our relationship is very loving but my suggestions have caused a few arguments because she isn’t as up for it as me, even when the lockdown is properly over and everything’s safe.

Am I in the wrong for trying to talk her into it?

DEIDRE SAYS: Frankly, yes.

Bringing other people into a relationship is very risky and can cause huge problems of hurt and damaged trust.

Your girlfriend has made it quite clear that it is not what she wants, so best give it a rest.

Does your sex life need extra excitement or are you uneasy about long-term intimacy?

How was your parents’ relationship?

My e-leaflet on Swapping And Swinging can help.

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