My fella had mud on his boxers when he got home from the pub – I think he cheated

DEAR DEIDRE:  WHEN he got home from the pub, my fella had mud on his jeans and boxers.

I think he cheated on me.

He’d stormed off to the pub after we had a row and didn’t get home until an hour after closing time.

When our alarm went off in the morning he jumped out of bed and ran down to put his jeans and boxers in the wash. But I’d already seen them.

He came back upstairs with a cup of tea for me. Guilty conscience?

When I asked how he’d got muddy, he said he’d fallen over while having a wee.

He was drunk all right but he’s cheated before.

I reckon he had sex outside somewhere. We’re both 28.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You will probably never know for sure and accusations and denials will only widen the rift between you.

Best not fixate on it but take a wider look at your relationship.

What was that row about? Are there ongoing issues that need sorting?

Strengthen the trust and your bond and you will be able to stop fretting.

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