My obese wife won't have sex with me and refuses to lose weight
DEAR DEIDRE: IF I don’t initiate sex, we’ll go weeks without it. My wife’s very passive and doesn’t feel anything.
Even when we do have sex, it’s passion-free.
She had the same issue in her previous marriage causing it to break down.
I’m 63 and my wife is 61. I’ve asked her to see her doctor but she refuses.
She is also obese and when I suggest we do something together to try to reduce her weight she isn’t motivated.
I love her but part of me doesn’t think she loves me, which is why she treats me like this. What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Her lack of interest in sex dates back to something well before your time and may be due to abuse or a restrictive “hung-up” upbringing.
Try to talk to your wife about why she is like this.
My support pack Is She Not Keen On Sex? will help.
Tell her you are worried about her health and want to get into healthy eating patterns and regular exercise together.
My pack Weight Worries gives practical advice.
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