{"id":70640,"date":"2023-10-31T12:19:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-31T12:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/montelagocelticfestival.com\/?p=70640"},"modified":"2023-10-31T12:19:00","modified_gmt":"2023-10-31T12:19:00","slug":"i-make-a-point-of-arguing-with-my-husband-in-front-of-our-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/montelagocelticfestival.com\/celebrity\/i-make-a-point-of-arguing-with-my-husband-in-front-of-our-children\/","title":{"rendered":"I make a point of arguing with my husband in front of our children"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>I make a point of arguing with my husband in front of our four children &#8211; I think it&#8217;s healthy and teaches them conflict resolution<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>The US-based mother believes\u00a0she is teaching her children conflict resoloution<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a parenting expert and these are my top 5 tips for what you should say instead of telling kids &#8216;no&#8217;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A couple has sparked a debate online after revealing they deliberately argue in front of their children.<\/p>\n<p>Dallas-based Nika Diwa took to TikTok to share her &#8216;unpopular&#8217; opinion that fighting in front of your children is perfectly &#8216;healthy&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The mother-of-four shared a video that showed her bickering with her husband while her daughter was in her arms.<\/p>\n<p>Th couple purposefully argue in front of their children because they believe it helps their children to establish skills in &#8216;conflict resolution&#8217;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Her\u00a0video has since amassed over 60,000 likes, with many viewers agreeing with Nika&#8217;s opinion. However, others have taken to the comments to voice their concern.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/76753123-12644105-image-a-53_1698680839622.jpg\" height=\"890\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Dallas-based mother Nika Diwa (pictured middle) took to TikTok to explain why she argues with her partner (pictured left) in front of their children (pictured right)<\/p>\n<p>Nika realised that her opinion was &#8216;unpopular&#8217; and may create controversy.<\/p>\n<p>However, she claimed that by arguing in front of her children, she was teaching them skills in conflict resolution.<\/p>\n<p>To justify her reasoning, Nika said: &#8216;It&#8217;s important for kids to learn how to navigate healthy conflict.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The couple let their children watch them arguing &#8216;respectfully&#8217; to &#8216;work towards resolution and unity&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>She concluded: &#8216;This helps them set up healthy conflict resolution as they grow up.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>In the video, Nika and her partner appeared to be exchanging some cross words with two of their children present, although what they were saying wasn&#8217;t audible in the footage.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/77179369-12644105-image-a-52_1698680817499.jpg\" height=\"925\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The couple let their children listen to their arguments and work towards unity to teach them conflict resolution\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the clip, the couple settled the matter and kissed one another.<\/p>\n<p>Viewers took to the comment section to share their thoughts on Nika and her husband&#8217;s decision. While some agreed with the concept, others found it concerning.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>One said: &#8216;Man I wish my parents did this. Shows healthy communication and respect even if not agreeing.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A second person added: &#8216;My parents never did this. This shows healthy communication and respect even if not agreeing with each other.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>A third wrote: &#8216;I never thought of it that way. Genius!!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/77179605-12644105-image-m-34_1698679960569.jpg\" height=\"49\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/77179603-12644105-image-m-47_1698680616041.jpg\" height=\"42\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/77179603-12644105-image-m-48_1698680624521.jpg\" height=\"50\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/31\/11\/77179605-12644105-image-m-1_1698751499460.jpg\" height=\"29\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/31\/11\/77179603-12644105-image-m-3_1698751533457.jpg\" height=\"26\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/30\/15\/77179603-12644105-image-m-40_1698680123202.jpg\" height=\"28\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/31\/11\/77179603-12644105-Hundreds_of_people_took_to_the_comment_section_to_share_their_th-m-2_1698751518351.jpg\" height=\"23\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Hundreds of people took to the comment section to share their thoughts on the video, but many were divided\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>However, many other viewers did not view the idea so positively.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>One said: &#8216;Do not fight in front of your kids. Yes! they are meant to think things are perfect, they are meant to only see love and adoration for each other.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>A second wrote: &#8216;I think it depends. I have a lot of trauma from listening to my parents argue about finances.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>A third added: &#8216;I think kids can witness disagreements\/conversations, not arguments\/fights.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>A fourth said: &#8216;True healthy communication!! if it&#8217;s not healthy don&#8217;t do it in front of the kids please\u2026from personal experience it causes a LOT of anxiety.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12644105\/I-make-point-arguing-husband-four-children-think-healthy-teaches-conflict-resolution.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I make a point of arguing with my husband in front of our four children &#8211; I think it&#8217;s healthy and teaches them conflict resolution The US-based mother believes\u00a0she is teaching her children conflict resoloution READ MORE:\u00a0I&#8217;m a parenting expert and these are my top 5 tips for what you should say instead of telling kids &#8216;no&#8217; 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